Just Like That

Hey guyz …  This week,  I have had some gnanodaya that I have an other portfolio to which I have to attend to  – @ something called workplace!

Have been juggling b/w home n work literally. So, all those thoughts in the draft folder of my brain/mind whatever will take time to be put into words.

Well, I could not wait to share a few things with u though.Also, Pixie wanted a post … here it is for u 😉

Recently, my cousin came visiting with his 2+ yrs old daughter. She is kinda hyperactive running all around and is a real chatter-box. She speaks really well and I can’t believe there’s so much clarity in her speech. There are 2 things though which really amused me that day. She says ‘revy revy good‘ or ‘revy revy bad‘ whenever she finds anything she likes/hates. She just can’t get the word ‘very’ 😛 I gave her something to eat n she said ‘revy revy yummy‘ :P. It sounds so sweet to hear that 🙂

The other one was V.P.Singh. Not sure where she heard the name though when he is nowhere in the news! She calls him V.C. Ping. And so, I think the word ‘Singh’ for her has taken the form of ‘Ping’. Ask her which is ur fav song n she goes, ‘Ping is King Ping is King‘ . I think she is going to take to chatting like duck to water 😛

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When we had been on a trek recently, we met one person Mr.RS. He shared how their life changed completely after their second daughter was born with Down’s syndrome – they were shocked at first and did not know what her future is going to be like. When she came of age, schools refused to take her in. That was when they took the major decision in their life. They quit the high-paying jobs they had and started a school for such children. It helped that the mother had been a school principal before. Today, their school stands as one which has taken in so many such children and is imparting quality education to them. He is so happy that so many other parents are not going through the difficulties that they had to, to see their daughter be what she is now. The girl now is a wonderful Kathak dancer and we could see the joy in the eyes of the proud father.  The elder sister who is an architect was equally supportive to the younger one.

They also run an NGO which arranges medical camps for the needy, camps in villages to let then know the importance of sending their children to school, discourage them from the evil practices of child labour, child marriage etc…

Isn’t life all about what we make of it. If they had been cribbing about what happened to them and not taken it in their stride and moved further, life would have been different for them too! He was also saying how much he has changed from being a person who just thought about himself and his family to one who wants to see a change in the world and is working towards it. He attributes it all to his second daughter and said he has taken it as a message from the Lord that something had to be done by him instead of being selfish.

It really touched my heart. Aren’t we missing out on so many gifts from God just because they are not wrapped the way we want them to be ???


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          1. no no Monu!! No fixing business here!!!

            I was innocently blog hopping and came by here and saw Swaram had posted!!! 😉
            So, commented!!!!!!

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  1. Ah… this is a smasher of a post Swaram! 🙂

    😛 Thanksu .. wanted to share this one from that day itself. I ws mighty impressed!

    very warm.. extremely insightful as well 🙂

    🙂

    LOL@ Ping is King!! 😀 😀

    Its so funny when she says that .. nt sure if it sounds like that here 😉

    The NGO sounds fantastic. Do they take in contributions?
    If so, will send you or them a cheque or anything else we can from here…

    He did take us for a few camps .. when we asked, he said he wants more people antha .. will ask him abt monetary help
    So nice of u to ask 🙂

    And yes, Life is all about what we make out of it.
    We need to take time to smell the flowers 🙂

    Thatz a nice one 🙂

    And learn to enjoy and recognise God’s gifts, even though, as you say, the packing is different!

    Hugs!

    Hugs to u too 🙂

    Super smashing post idu!!

    Super-duper thanks 😛

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  2. Aww….”Ping is King”…..really really sweet.

    The way she sings is really funny .. 🙂

    & Mr RS sounds totally amazing. It’s people like these who make this world worth living.

    N yeah that person is really gr8 na 😦 Here I am just earning n feeding myself 😦

    Hope the workload eases soon. I look forward to your posts everyday.

    I hope so too 😦 How sweet of u 🙂

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  3. revy revy 🙂 so cute

    ROFL Ping is king ping is king… kids are so so cute and this one she seems so adorable…

    Oh yeah she is! I feel like eating her up 😛

    kudos for the couple who did, it takes courage to take such steps… really hats off to them…

    Seriously .. am mighty impressed 🙂

    i agree with u, u said it so beautifully “Aren’t we missing out on so many gifts from God just because they are not wrapped the way we want them to be ???”

    🙂

    in the rush called life we are missing life itself i feel

    Very true !

    loved the post

    Thank u Monu 🙂

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  4. Aren’t we missing out on so many gifts from God just because they are not wrapped the way we want them to be ???

    Swaram those lines are so so meaning ful… whilst you play around and keep spamming in comments you also come up with such gems…

    Ayyo 😦 Thatz ur impression abt me 😦 Wailllllllll
    But yeah, I take pride in being a comment space spammer too! Nt everyone cn do it LOL :))

    wonderful and thought provoking…

    🙂

    just yesterday my wife went to a couple of places where it was flooded in indore and people’s houses were sunk and she said how sad… and yet we crib we dont have enough… all perceptions I guess…

    So true .. we need to thank God each day that we have the whole body intact n hv no dearth of anything!

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    1. Comment spamming mein I told you na you are my partner… no one spams like we do… lol…

      we must get an award for most irrelevant comments some day… lol 😛 😛

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  5. The girl is cute in the first part… !!

    I luv her 🙂

    Hriday had a really difficult time saying Roller… he would say it
    LOLLAL… it was a real tongue twister for him…

    Ha ha .. one of my cousins used to say Load lollel too for Road roller 😉

    R was most difficult for him… he would make it an L … Maru would become Malu etc…

    He now speaks toooo fast and we have to tell him baba take a pause… so we can understand everything… we are working on his pronounciations these days…

    Ha ha .. Baba take a pause .. Me wanna speak to him Hitchu!!!!!

    amazingly all animal names and types of dinosaurs he says quite clearly…

    He luvs them na much to ur annoyance 😉

    hes gone on his mom… non stop chatter…

    :grrrrrrrrrr

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      1. yes he looks exactly like me and has quite a few traits of me… but this non stop chattering.. talking is his mom’s trait… not typing i mean talking…

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        1. hehehe!! 😛

          no no!! Me and Monu agree on the same thing!!

          How can that be? non-stop chatter is from you!!! 😛

          *running with Monu now!!*

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    1. oh ho even ojas is having tough time saying R… he says yaabit… nayeen… 😀

      ha ha anyone who has seen u in online world wont agree with this – hes gone on his mom… non stop chatter…

      he has certainly gone on u

      bhago

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      1. I am a typer… not a talker… uggh…

        typing is different and talking quite different…

        mostly the quieter types in real life are most chatty here…

        isnt that a rule ????

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        1. oh no.. i am a chatter box outside the blog world as well!
          but, sometimes, I phase out and can’t connect at all…
          So, i stay silent!!

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            1. howdu!!
              namma connection is super!! (touchwood)
              that’s how we know who has posted!! 😛

              Kismat Connection.!!!!!

              Monu also left ?

              Why is anybody working on a Friday afternoon? Bah!
              Hopeless

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    1. me here!! 😀

      arre.. audit is coming up so my manager is eating my head to put the documents!
      I am this close to losing it!!! 😀 😀

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      1. that’s tomorrow alwa?

        Hhhhhhhhhhiiiiiiiiiiiiittttttccccccccchhhhhhhhuuuuuu…

        *runs before Hitchu comes after Pixie for disturbing his peace and quiet*

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        1. forgot FB and orkut… and yest outlook express… and sms !!!! me receives atleast 100 emails in office…. 100 personal emails that include forwards & blog comment updates… and over 100 sms !!!

          cool eh…

          blows air over nails and looks for applause…

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          1. Aren’t you being modest?!!! 😛

            100 emails?!! Whew!

            I thought I got more, but, this is heights!!

            I have 2 office mail ids – one comapny and 1 client, so we get mails in both!

            Personal mails are all blocked! 😀

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            1. Applause 🙂 🙂 🙂

              This is for me, Pixie n others who r helping u in spamming Hitchu 😛

              Okie okie .. u too 😉

              Me too .. cant Rx mails on office id 😦

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  6. LOLZZ!!

    Paapa Smithus!!

    And crafty is being missed hopelessly… Sigh.
    I wish she comes back soon.

    Maybe she is drinking water now and getting Hiccups!! 😛 😛

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  7. there are 54 comments (now 55) all of them are from Pixie and Hitchu and Monu has contributed a few!
    Swaram has replied to them all!!

    Man! can we spam comments or what?!!! 😀 😀

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    1. LOL .. I dint even c the number 😉

      Gng by this, am sure I will do office documentation all the time 2day @ home 😛 I hv to finish it n I luv this documentation more ROFL!!!

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  8. revy revy nicely written post 🙂

    Next time if I get bored and there are no new posts from my blogger friends I know where to go. To you comments sections… Fun to read them 🙂

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  9. Oooooh, I simply love lil kids and their lisps !!!! 🙂
    My own bro used to call me ‘oita’ cos he could never say ‘r’. hehe..

    Oita .. hw cute 🙂

    Your other story was inspirational. Truly, its all in the mind. One of my friends always says – Get busy living or get busy dying. So true ain’t it?! Choice is ours always..

    That’s a nice one. We get to learn so much from the comment section 🙂

    Happy weekend dear,
    Rohitha

    Wish u the same 🙂

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  10. For the first story: It must have been a joy to listen to the kid. I love it when they say silly things. I never correct Neha when she says funny stuff. I just let it go on for quite a while and then she corrects it herself.

    Yeah .. it is . Nt long before they give up all that baby talk na 🙂
    Neha ws so sweet on the phone the other day!

    Second story: Wow! Some spirit. This man seems to be after my own heart.It must have been such a terrible blow when they discovered Down’s syndrome. But like they say, u should look at the positive in everything. Nice story. Thanks for sharing.

    Oh yeah.. Hv to learn from that man na .. hw many small things seem like major probs sometimes!

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  11. you find very few people who think like Mr. RS and glad you met him.

    Seriously Shruthi .. ee nadve any small thing which seems like a prob, I remember his spirit!

    He definitely has made a difference to the society. May he get more people who can help him in his work. and a kathak dancer indeed! revy revy impressive 🙂

    I am so glad to go on treks n stuff bcoz we get to meet people from diff walks of life from whom we cn learn a lot of things!

    and the girl is so sweet. todlu maatugaLanna keLodikke ondthara khushi alwa. My lil cousin couldnt say any word that started with “F/ph”. so she would say “shend” for friend, “shone” for phone and so on. we still make fun of her. Poor thing.

    Cho chweet alva 🙂

    happy weekend 😀

    Wish u the same 🙂

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  12. Revy revy impressed with the chatterbox….hehe

    Can u give the name of the school and such things….it may be helpful to some…..

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  13. lol.. that little girl sounded choo chweet…

    Oh yeah .. I just can’t get enuf of her 🙂

    and the other half was very touching.. “taken it as a message from the Lord that something had to be done by him instead of being selfish.” there are very few who think like that..

    So true .. Hats off to their spirit 🙂

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  14. Your post is revy revy nice, my elder kid also talks a lot,in class she is calm but at home she talks talks…….

    How sweet 🙂 How old r they Saritha? Upload their pics on FB na. I really want to see them.. thatz if u r comfortable 🙂

    , i have to mention here that even i am like her.

    LOL … Me, Pixie, Monika were all saying the same 😛 Its a talent 😉

    God bless them.It indeed a noble deed to start a school for those kids,i always want to work in those schools.

    Yeah .. I hv the idea of of doing some social work full time some day… hope it happens

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  15. Your cousin’s daughter is so so cute!!!! V.C. Ping and Ping is King was ROFL!!!!

    🙂 I keep telling him to leave her with me n go 😉

    As for the couple you mentioned – yes, they do seem to be amazing! I can’t imagine the sorrow they must have gone through before they decided to take control of things.. and make a difference..

    Seriously na … that is a sad state here though. Shudn’t there be provisions for all kids to grow???

    They demonstrate the saying – ‘Be the change you want to see!’.

    Exactly!

    But again, in India, so many parents in the same boat may not even be in a position to send their child to a special school – leave alone start a school.. I do wish India develops to a point where everyone has a right to quality life..

    Well said Smitha … exactly what I feel!

    Just the other day, we had been to a park, where there was a separate road for disabled people to reach the interiors of a park – and we were commenting about how one can make out, how evolved a society is, by the way they cater to the weakest within itself..

    How nice; I want to see our nation do that some day – cater to all its people 🙂

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  16. Also wanted to say, that I loved your post! and it brought back memories of the time when I did a bit of volunteer work with special needs children.. It was so so rewarding…

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    1. Yeah it is .. the small things we do give us a lot of joy. I really want to do some more social work some day .. hope it happens 🙂

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  17. You brought out so many emotions in one single post.

    LOL @ V.C.Ping 🙂

    😆 My sis was just telling me she used to say that too. Am surprised 😛

    And the real-life story of how a lil girl with down’s syndrome inspired her parents to change their whole outlook on life, brought tears to my eyes. We often say “I wish it were that easy”, but the thing is, it is never easy. Making such an enormous life-changing decision is the toughest thing of all, but these people who do it are truly divine.

    Yeah they are .. I salute their spirit! Made me feel there’s so so much more I hv to do in life!

    Thanks for writing about this Swaram, it made me want to do more with my life.

    Nice spirit dear 🙂
    N I really missed u on my previous post .. ur comments r something I wait for.. U were one of the very few 😛 rather just 2 who used to comment on my posts 🙂

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  18. You brought out so many emotions in one single post.

    LOL @ V.C.Ping 🙂

    And the real-life story of how a lil girl with down’s syndrome inspired her parents to change their whole outlook on life, brought tears to my eyes. We often say “I wish it were that easy”, but the thing is, it is never easy. Making such an enormous life-changing decision is the toughest thing of all, but these people who do it are truly divine.
    Thanks for writing about this Swaram, it makes me want to do more with my life.

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  19. Looks like I commented twice on this post 🙂 BTW, 91 comments !!! WOW!! 🙂

    I can’t believe I missed one of your posts, let me check it out.

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    1. 😛 Sorry 😉 I really wait for ur comments … pls read whichever post u can @ leisure. Ppl whose comments I wait for na 😛 I keep thinking what they wud hv said if they read the post. Aise hi nikal gayi muh se woh baat 😛

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  20. Wow! seriously! i too forgot what i wanted to write.. so many comments. Fun to read 🙂 though..

    😛 LOL :))

    Lil p can’t say lemon .. she says lenum. Revy revy is revy funny! Too cute. If possible, ask ur cuz to record it n keep ..

    lenum … how sweet 🙂

    The couple’s story was really inspiring… keep updating us if you get to know more abt their NGO

    Yeah it is! Will def do that 🙂

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  21. Thats a nice lesson. Its true, most of the time we crib about life being unfair (didnt I do that too recently?) but we never do anything to make it otherwise !!!

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  22. Its really a heart warming post Swaram 🙂

    The couple is really great in changing not only their daughter’s life but of many…

    as he has said god always tells us to do something in form of somebody 🙂

    and for that sweet kid, she is revy, revy cute 😀

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    1. Yes Kanagu .. so true. Nt only hv they done something for their daughter alone, but for so many children like her!

      N yeah .. she is really cute 🙂

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  23. WOW ! Had been busy with some personal work and here I come to see abt 100 comments – U guys are having a ball commenting !!!

    Ha ha .. we did .. this ws a mini IM:P

    Anyway, cute cute baby talk ! I love it. I loved it, when my younger one always used to interchange Ls and Rs in a single word. And, all words that begin with a “S” will not have a Ssss sound in the beginning. Like Step will be told as Tep, School will be Chool like that. Had great fun with her baby talk !!!!

    Ha ha .. so cute 🙂

    What contradicting two stories. First one, I am so happy to hear the baby talk and second one, made me stop the words coming out of my mouth and read further with sadness, happiness, wishes for the father-daughter duo. It takes such a great amount of strength to overcome the daughter’s illness and actually work for other such children like that. Great story ! Kudos to the father !!!!

    Yeah .. gr8 parents!

    BTW, changed pic, eh ???? Gud, but I cant see ur face clearly !!!!
    Thatz what I wanted 😉

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  24. Swaram your cousins’s daughter is TOO cute for words 😀

    muah! for her! 😀

    Yeah … I dint want her to go away … Nt sure when I wil meet her again 😦

    you know maybe she is smarter than us ..I mean V.C Ping sounds more apt for mannu Uncle no? 😀

    Ha ha 😀

    about Mr RS and his wife?
    Hats off to such parents!!
    what amazing grit! it takes a lot to take such major life changing decisions..

    Seriously .. felt so nice to meet such a nice man

    And what a beautiful , beautiful way of turning their personal challenge into a blessing for so many!

    You know this reminds me of Shyama Chona and her daughter Tamanna…

    Shyama Chona (prinicipal of DPS R.K Puram) started a school for other kids who were like her daughter
    and today her other school (NOT DPS) is a beautiful example of how one person can make a difference!

    Got to learn so much from them seriously!

    Aren’t we missing out on so many gifts from God just because they are not wrapped the way we want them to be ???
    beautifully said Swaram! 🙂
    yes this is exactly what we do… and we need to take a re-look at our lives..

    🙂 Thanks Indy

    ((hugs)) for this wonderful post!

    So sweet of u … thanks Indy 🙂

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      1. nah baba! I was going to come over anyway 😛
        yeah its okay with friends 😀

        and that Vimmuuu devil seriously will get a piece of my mind 😀

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  25. OMG 106 comments above me? And you posted this just yesterday!! 🙂

    So many of them r mine 😛 We had made this a mini-chat session for some time 😉

    What else can one expect from a revy revy revy endearing chirpy writer isnt it? 🙂

    😛 Girl … don’t get me onto Cloud No.9 😉

    Ping is King had me splitting my sides laughing. I was imagining a young child rapping “Ping is King! Ping is King!” ROFL!!

    Oh! It ws too amusing … I asked her to do it so many times that day 😛

    The story about the parents who started a school so that his daughter can study was very touching. I do hope everything goes well for them.

    So true … best wishes for them 🙂

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  26. LOLz….. who is India’s Prime Minister Swaram..? I can hear someone saying ” Manmohan Ping “…. 😀

    Sho shhweet..kids are such a sweet heart especially during this phase when they “shay,…everything revy revy shhhhhweetly 🙂

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  27. What a beautiful post. Kids are adorable! Do the other family have a blog or a website? Pliss to share more details.
    -http://writerzblock.wordpress.com/

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  28. Swaram,ummmas to your cousin’s daughter! She sounds ‘revy revy’ shweeet 🙂

    🙂 Missing her so much nw 😦

    As for Mr RS,hats off to him and his wife!We need more people like them,dont we?I can imagine how heartbreaking it must have been to the couple when they learnt about their child’ down syndrome.And to take that jolt in their stride and turn it around to make her and so many other children’s lives even more worthwhile needs a real brave heart. Amazing!

    So true .. takes a lot to do what they hv done!

    Thanks for sharing this,Swaram 🙂

    Pleasure dear 🙂

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  29. Hi Swaram, cute article on your cousin’s daughter. Good story about Mr RS, may his tribe increase. I know how society is still prejudiced against “special kids”, all the best to them for their efforts. How do you like wordpress?

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  30. SWARAM!!!!!
    wear the tribal dance head gear!!!

    Ready ready .. 🙂

    danganakka!!!

    haudu haudu!!! me missed u tooooo much!!!!!

    Ha ha ha .. bingo!

    😀 😀 😀

    arre, Ping is King is choooo cute!!!!!!!
    next time u meet her, give her hugs from me also, okies??? the little darling!!!!

    Oh sure 🙂

    and kudos to that couple!!! really…its quite an inspiration…not many will go ahead n try n make their own difference in society…becoz of them, now so many parents will not have to go thru what they did….and also the kids.

    So true dear .. they are an inspiration!

    Hugs to them too!

    Oh how sweet 🙂

    HUGS TO EVERYBODY!!!!

    *crafty sips her tall mug of coffee*

    Swaram….don’t sit yet….we have to make up for dance we missed!!!!!!

    Yes yes .. full se charged up 😉

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      1. nanu ninna preethasdini!!

        nanu ashte [Me too :)]

        😀 😀 😀

        haudu! its true!!

        Kanditha [ofcourse ;)]

        swaram!

        😀 😀

        i can’t wait to come modhalu on blogs now! 😀

        *crafty shows off kannada skills*

        yipppeeeeeeeee

        Yay! Cheers!

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  31. oh gosh.. 😦 😦

    how did i miss this post?!!!

    *sniff* *wail* 😦 😦 😦

    LOL @ revy & ping. i think she may have just started a new revolution. All the Singhs of the world are going to get renamed. Santa Ping and Banta Ping….infact I have a Singh here at work…will go over to his desk right away 😀

    LOL! Do tell me his reactions 😉 😉

    Hats of to Mr. RS. Seriously, this is so inspirational. Like they say, God helps those who help themselves.

    So true na!

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  32. i am pretty sure i commented and subscribed…but can not seem to find my comment…and missed out on the entire conversations:(

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    1. Oh is it?? Nothing in the spam folder too .. it happens sometimes!

      N, I am surprised it asked me to approve ur comment today!!!!!! Weird WP 🙄

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  33. Revy revy good post 😛
    Touched by the story of the parents of the girl with down syndrome. Wish more and more people will be inspired to make a difference in the society instead of just complaining about it.

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  34. this post is Just Like That, ille????

    haudu! it is!!!

    Arre Crafty .. so much kannada n nt teaching me Malayalam 😦
    *sob* *sob*

    so i will also danganakka here Just Like That!

    LOL!! JLT Danganakka 😉

    swaram…..two feathers from my colour-colour head gear is missing…..i have my doubts on this parrot who sits on the tree my window overlooks…..he seems to have a couple of extra feathers…. hmpf……

    Ha ha ha .. U Crafty .. no one can beat u @ this 😉 How innovative Sweety 😉

    anyhooo……ppl come back with holiday weight…i have come back with sabbatical weight 😛

    must to dance!!!

    danganakka!!!!!!

    Yes yes .. me joining n waiting for others too.

    *swaram n crafty arrange for tribal music*

    *There’s this tribal song Bam bam boya bul bul bola re; chalega kya ;)*

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