When I was making rice for lunch today, there was an unusual smell 😉 Ha ha! not something bad, I have to call it an aroma actually. And it took me back to some good old days – this is a smell which I relate with my Nani [my maternal grandmom]. Years ago, in the days without pressure cookers, she used to make rice by cooking it on sim fire in a normal vessel and this aroma used to fill the entire house – so much so that, I began to associate that smell with Ajji mane [grandmom’s home]. My nose is sooo sensitive to that smell that anywhere I can feel it, it reminds me of Ajji mane. Its amazing what smell, taste, music etc.. can do to our mood @ certain times – make us all nostalgic!
Like a dish called majjige-hulhi [‘curd sambar’ being the literal translation :P] which is usually made using ash-gourd, cucumber, lady’s finger etc.. My Dadi [paternal grandmom] used to make it with brinjal! Not so common – it used to taste delicious!!! So, whenever I make it now, its always Ajji who occupies my thoughts 🙂 Like some dishes taste just like what our Moms make and bring us so much joy 🙂
Music has the same effect too. I was listening to the song ‘Nani teri morni ko‘ when my Badi Nani [Grandpa’s Bhabhi] passed away and the song brings to my memory all those wonderful moments that we spent with her. My Nani was famous for singing ‘Yeh Zindagi Usi ki hai‘ be it @ family functions or just like that when we all got together or when we played Antakshari 🙂 It does bring a smile on my face when I listen to this song.
Isn’t it a beautiful feeling that our dear ones stay with us in so many ways, through so many channels even after they have passed on to another world? Any such memories that you people can relate to? Please share them here … I would love to read them 🙂
Woooooooo!!! Am the first! 😀
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Yay u r 🙂
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was wondering where is the post for the day!
Yea girl u couldnt be more right!! SOme smells just bring back home n memmories 🙂
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Ha ha am late today 🙂 🙂
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So true. There are so many songs and smells that transport us back and forth.
Here’s something i wrote loooooong back 😉 😉
http://alphabetworld.wordpress.com/2008/06/22/those-smellsthose-songsand-those-memories/
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Ohhh a similar one 🙂 nicee 🙂
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aWWWWW
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🙂 🙂 🙂
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This is a nice one, Swaram! Majjige huli is my favourite, too! Esp. Shyavige with majjige huli…mmmm!
My grandmother’s thambuli with any vegetable, used to be very tasty. Very rarely we get that taste. If the taste is good, immediately we recall her taste.
She used to like some songs so much that she used to start crying…whenever I hear old Rafi’s songs, Hemant Kumar’s songs, I remember her even now. My sister in law, who is a Tamilian, used to love ‘indu yenage Govinda’ and ‘Poojisalende hoogala thande’. We used to have a cassette player in those days and I had to keep on repeating these songs. These songs remind me of her even now!
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U make me want to eat thambuli nw Sandhya .. I luvvvv it 🙂 esp. with dhoddapatre soppu 🙂
Luved ur song memories too 🙂
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Do u ppl realize what this is doing to me??? Atleast u ppl can cook it when u go back home. Me have to wait for a vacation to go home and ask mom to cook these
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😛 😛 😛
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nice!
I told u na – i remember my granny when I make lemon saaru! 😀
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Oh ya Pix! I wanted to add that actually 😉
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You guys discuss what to write in your posts ????? 😉
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No Ums; she hd told me sometime bk when we were talking over phone 🙂 🙂
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dear ones stay with us in so many things
u know my granny (nani) used to make bitter gourd (karela) stuffed with chana dal… i have never seen anyone else making it and all my massi’s and mami’s have tried making remembering whatever they could but it never turns out that way
sigh
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I luvvvvv stuffed Karelas .. this sounds delicious Mons!
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Such a sweet nostalgia-inducing post, Swaram. Reminded me of my grandma(maternal).. She used to make absolute lip-smacking avial. I can still feel that taste in my mouth as I tell you about it. You’re so right..some memories of your loved ones stay on with you even after they have passed on.
Beautiful beautiful post 🙂
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oh ho u make me wanna eat avial now Deeps .. thanks sooo much for ur beautiful comment too 🙂 🙂
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you have taken me back to my good old days… thanks for this nostalgia… it feels good and refreshing to get into those thoughts… we miss so much…
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Oh ya .. refreshing indeed .. my pleasure 🙂
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so true …. infact any movie / song I watched during my school / college days are still fresh in my memory.
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Hmmm 🙂 🙂
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So you found a topic for today…awesome! 🙂
Yea I have this tendency of suddenly falling back upon memories in the middle of a conversation and would lose track of everything else. It maybe just a random thought that passes through my head…I may remember something else… and then bam! I’m gone! LOL
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LOL; I hd just published when I pinged u bk 🙂
Ha ha .. thatz so nice 🙂
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knew exactly wht u were talking abt……everytime I hear this song from Border ‘Sandhese aate hai’ I remember how my mother happily went of to kerela for 2 whole weeks and left me a total amateur incharge of the kitchen. Sheesh I’ll NEVER forget tht 😦
Where did the song come in u may ask…..I used to play the tape[bot the tape the previous day she left] every morning while I figured out wht to cook 😛
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Ha ha ha .. u r so cool Nance 🙂
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🙂 🙂 🙂
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😀 😀 😀 😀
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Awww I knoww what you mean,Swaram..I associate smells with memories too.There is this particular Agarbatti smell,that always reminds me of one of my schools:)..and I can picture myself,going up the stairs..everything.And a certain weather reminds me of mornings spent on the steps at Aaji-ghar:)
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Ohh weather is another thing! Ahhh bliss!
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oh yes… its like the dudh ka mawa my Nani used to make for us…. lots of such memories… !!! this is a sweet post !! 🙂
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Slurp! Thanks Hitchu 🙂
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Aeroplane smell! That’s what I used to call that whiff that greets you at the door into the plane where the air hostess welcomes you…that yummy perfume always makes me think of family reunions, travel across continents and (then) airplane meals!
And certain detergent smells remind me of my hostel days when we used to all wash our clothes and hang them up to dry! Lovely post!
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Lovely memories Starry. Perfumes do that to me too 🙂
Thank u 🙂
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Actually, every day cooking is so nostalgic for me, as I do some dish, which my patti or amma has prepared, when I was young…those vessels used for cooking, their peculiar sounds, the grinding stone to make the masala, the masala smell in your hands, even the smell of hing in the air and of course, the special smell associated with patti and amma’s cooking…every thing fills in me and I try to achieve it in my cooking. Its tough but still worth a try !!! 🙂
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Oh u r so rt Ums .. it happens everyday 🙂 🙂
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Woww… i loved this post..expecially because its about NANi….i love my naniiii …arent they darlings??? ohh how i wish she would cme and stay with us in mumbai… 😦
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Ohh they r. I luvvvv her too and miss her so much 🙄
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Visiting your blog after a long time Swaram. That itself is high on Nostalgia for me and just as special.
Wow and I am so much in awe of your ability to pick out these stray but timeless bits of memories…
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Thanks so much Hypermom. Its so nice to hv u here after a long time 🙂 🙂
Ha ha .. all thanks to NaBloPoMo 😛 😛
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Oh yes! Smells always bring back memories! Any sandal soap/powder smell and I am back in my grannie’s home years ago! Certain smells of incense sticks and I am reminded of pujas at her place. And now also, a couple of deos remind me of trips to places (London to be exact). It is amusing how the nose associates everything to memories!
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Ohh u just reminded me abt another thing. Vicco turmeric and Mysore Sandal .. my Nani’s favvvvv 🙂 🙂
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Oh yes. The ancestral house which we used to visit once every 2 years. All the relatives would collect to meet us ‘out-station’ people at the grandparents’ place. My nanaji had a big swing inside his house. We used to sit there and sing songs loudly. (I used to blabber on the hindi lyrics as I never knew the tamil ones! ) 😀
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Swinggg …. I feel like gng to one such place nw!!
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Aee that’s a sweet nostalgic post.. The smell of the sea makes me want to be in Mumbai./ Goa. I just love these cities… Any food related smells make want to run home to my mom..
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Oh I know .. food and Mom are so strongly related 🙂
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Oh absolutely Swaram!!! Memories come flooding back in all forms and shapes and smells 🙂 You’ve inspired me to write a post on this now 🙂
Btw, how come Mon is on Day 28 while you are at Day 27?!
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He he am yet to post today Pal. This is yesterday’s post 🙂
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Oh u r gng to write a post too .. woww!
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Oh yes, the smell of amti bhat! The delicious dal-baati that only granny could make 🙂
Smells and songs indeed transport us to a different time and people!
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Oh ya they do 🙂
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Lovely post Swaram 🙂 Some smells, foods, songs, weather …all bring back fond memories. I think of my mom …whenever i see fresh mallige hoovu or pista icecream which were her favorites 🙂 and every time i make palak saaru… her preparation used to be yummy! and that was the only one thing i had asked her to teach me to make!!
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Oh u remind me of another one Priya .. my Ajji loved Pista ice-cream too 🙂
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Oh!! Swar…am missing my nani 😦 and her caress and ofcourse her hand-made khana….and so much pampering they do …!!
I don know but ..I really connect so well with dadi’s n nani’s…! And trust me I can sit with them for hours together…and feel so much of peace around me 🙂
Thanks for the nostalgic moments…!! 🙂
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Aww thatz so sweet Dew .. I miss my nani so much 😦 😦 😦
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absolutely Swaram.. i have associations of smell, food, places, music.. that ways i am a absolute sucker for emotions..
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Its bliss isn’t it 🙂
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Very very true about smells and music…it triggers nostalgia!!!
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🙂 🙂 🙂 Thanks S 🙂
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hah! You sent me back in flashback mode…. How some people live through little things in our lives.
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Yaa they do 🙂
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Wow..I loved this one. I too rememeber my grand mother’s kozhikatta (made of rice powder) and the smell it used to emanicipate.She had it ready whenever I went to see her…
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Aww thatz so sweet no 🙂 Grandmoms r so grand really 8)
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🙂 So you remembered your Nani,who loves that beautiful song..yeah zindgi usiki hai..My fav too..
I remember my mother when i get smell of fish fry…My mom makes best fish fry in this world..Honestly…
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🙂 🙂 So many of us cn relate to this simple pleasure no 🙂 🙂
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Hi Swaram, You are right, sometimes some aromas, some dishes, some sights just brings back the memories of our loved ones flooding back.
regards
Rekha
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Thanks Rekha 🙂
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Hi Swaram,
By the way we went to Munnar last month and I was remembering your wonderful post on Munnar, like you said it was indeed a beautiful and mesmerising place to be ..
sorry for double comments here, I wanted to post it under your travel blog then didnt want to miss out on updating you on my Munnar visit.
regards
Rekha
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Oh thatz really nice 🙂
U need nt hv to be sorry for anything, more the merrier 😉
U cn leave a comment anywhere Rekha .. I check out on all of them 🙂 🙂
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That was indeed nostalgic, My nani God bless her, she is such a fun person to be with.. each time i talk to her on fone its like when am i comeing, send pics , come soon .. I will not die till i see you married , I will not die till you have kids… I will not die till your kids get married
I keep joking with her she is trying to fool god.. 🙂
granparents are a BLESSING …
each time i go to my Pind, she makes sure i am fed properly, Saag with TONS OF GHEE and if i retaliate its like SHUT UP AND EAT… then the choori she makes… early morning a glass of lassi by the bed side (it works wonders for hangovers 🙂 he he he )
The small little wants she has, a pic of me in uniform, a pic of me with turban on in uniform… write a letter to her… call her and she is hard of hearing I have to shout most of times …
Thanks for this beautful..
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Awwwwww such a lovely comment Bikram. Thanks so much 🙂 God bless ur Nani and all grandmoms 🙂
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I know what you mean. Recently, I used Lux (the pink one) at somebody’s place, and I was reminded of our vacations at our Grand Mom’s place. And a special hing tadka of yellow dal, reminds me our neighbours…..
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Oh soaps do that too 🙂 🙂 🙂
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Ohh now look what you have done, I miss the bhel puri wallah bhaiyya in the galli outside our home so bad now!! The awesome delicious ragada pattice sizzling on the tava, the smell of fresh cut onions and tomatoes…..I miss my Aaji and the smell of the chatnis that she used to grind by hand on the stone paata…..sigh sigh…..Btw when my husband picked me up from the airport the first time I ever landed in the US, he put songs from Aashiqui (becoz he knew I liked them, this was 10 yrs back), and I just burst into tears and wouldnt stop crying, poor guy was so scared, he shut them off imm and hasnt listened to them till date hehee…It just made me so damn homesick, some songs still do, from that era…
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and look what u hv done nw 😛 I wanna go eat chats b/w my work 😆
Playing those songs ws so sweet Sonia 🙂 🙂
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Very true..can relate to what you are saying.. Whenever I read/watch Mahabharata, I remember my grandfather. I havent seen my grandmom so nothing much is associated with her.
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Yaa they used to tell us so many stories alva 🙂 🙂
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Very true 🙂
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😀 😀 yaaaa 🙂 🙂
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I never had a close relationship with my grandparents… so not able to say anything 😦
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The main point was about smells, music and taste etc.. etc.. Kanagu 🙂 🙂
Like Ramoji film city reminds u of Hyderabad 😛 😛
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Whoever are close to me are still with me. But yes, there are certain stuffs which remind me of my friends and I miss them so much then ! I immediately call and speak to them for a while, but I dont mention to them the actual reason for calling 😀 😀
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Huh? Nothing reminds u of me then 😦 😦
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