Bachpan dreams

As far as I can remember [roughly from my memory and from tales told @ home], the first thing I wanted to become after I grew up was  a Circus Joker .. yes, a Joker! I used to love seeing them running behind each other – hitting, kicking, juggling. And so, I used to try and stick a tomato on my nose and try to look like one.  My cousin had once placed some grains of puffed rice between her lips and told me she is Shurpanakha [an oggress in the epic Ramayana]. I thought putting them in my nostrils would make me look like a joker [I have a pretty innocent face to look like an ogress u c ;)] and attempted that one too, much to the fury of elders @ home. The cousin got rebuked actually for teaching me all these 😛 😛

Not sure when that dream got lost along the journey, but the next thing I wanted to be was a ‘Swing Aunty‘. There were these helpers @ Nursery School, who used to take us out during the play times and push us on the swing, help us slide etc.. Somehow, I used to find it really cool.

Then came ‘Bedsheet Uncle‘, who used to sell sarees, bedsheets etc.. by visiting us @ home. What ws so cool about him that he got to roam around with the bundle of clothes on his Luna Super and that was something I wanted to do too 😛 Leave my small cycle and get promoted to a moped.  So, I used to take a few clothes, tie them in a dupatta and place them on Amma’s two wheeler, make sounds like buurrrr as though I was riding the bike and went about selling clothes!

Wonder where all this gave way to the in-thing then … becoming a Doctor. So, the white uniform shirt was worn on any and every dress on days it was needed for school and teddy-bears were cut open using scissors and small knives to remove babies 😛 😛

The sweetest dream and which stayed with me for the longest time was one where I wanted to be a Play-back singer ..ahem 8) I used to hold anything which looked like a mike and sing and throw in some ‘Oh, ok sir’ or ‘higher octave .. hmmm’ as though a music director was guiding me 😛 I laugh @ it now when we talk abt it @ home, but it was my heart n soul then 😉

And then, somewhere down the line, a Journalist too 🙂

I see ppl say ‘Bachpan ka sapna poora hone ja raha hai‘ [My childhood dream is turning into reality] or ‘Bachpan se hi singer banna chahti thi‘ [I wanted to be a singer from my childhood itself] on so many reality shows.

I am now in a field which I chose to enter quite later in life …. may be when I was in the last few years of school life 😐  So, what all did u ppl want to be from childhood? All those dreams, the aspirations, the pretend-plays? And when did u decide what is that you are going to pursue?  I would love to know 🙂

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  1. As a kid I wanted to grow up to be a princess… yes I thought that was the best thing to do .. sit royally and be pampered. Then when sense was driven in I wanted to be a truck driver – the thrill of ludging around in a huge vehicle captivated me and yes I could have all the butter chicken and dhaba wali chai. Then I wanted to be something which i secretly regret not being till date. For sometime I wanted to be a painter and then a food taster hosting my own show. After my parents almost gave up on me ever becoming anyhting I decided to become what i am today – a lawyer. interesting journey heh? ;p

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    1. Ohh u r a lawyer .. nice nice. I considered it a totally cool profession @ one time … dnt ask me why 😛 😛

      I still nurse dreams of being a food show or travel show host 🙂 🙂

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      1. That’s it! Thank god nancy… the way my neice is hooked to Dora .. I thought kids have forgotten this long cherished dream ;p! When am I meeting them???

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  2. Wow.. good post swaram..

    I always wanted to join Army. But my family was against it. I still feel bad for not going to Army.

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    1. U know what .. there ws an age when I wanted to marry somebody from the Army 😛
      I wanted to join the Navy when my Uncle did, just recollect it after seeing ur comment 😉

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  3. //I wanted to be was a ‘Swing Aunty‘. //

    atleast the second half of ur wish is achieved now…gud luck with the swing part 😀 😀

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  4. Interesting list of dreams, Swaram. Wish I dreamt a few of them 😛

    Teacher,teacher,teacher–anyday, you asked me that was my dream. As a kid, if I were left alone, I used to take any raised platform, use a stick and threaten students for not completing their homework. :P, distribute report cards/marksheets and clap for the toppers, organize school assemblies etc. This continued during bus journeys also-the passing by trees were all students :P. Somehow, nothingelse impressed me as much. I am already on the road to being one, I think I have been damn adamant about it 🙂

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    1. U r so like my sis RS .. she ws the same. hey, y r u talking, dint do ur HW … all that I cud hear from here 😉

      And so nice u r trotting along that road .. all the best 🙂

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  5. OMG so cute Swaram! 😀

    I wanted to become a teacher, then a miracle doctor, then scientist, discover a parallel universe and win the nobel prize… oh well…

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  6. Lol swing aunty.We also used to attach shop names next to the uncles working in that shop.

    I always wanted to join navy,i used to love there dress and used to think that they are always on the water.Infact once i went and brought NDA application but it was late by then.

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  7. such a sweet post!! tearing up teddy bears to deliver babies!! that was ultimate 😀

    I wanted to be a teacher, a playback singer, an author, a poet, an actor, an astro physicist, an investigative journalist and a copywriter: that’s what I m now! 😀

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    1. Wah wah! Gr8 to be one no 🙂 Making ppl laugh is the best thing to do in life 😀 😀 😀

      Btw, I knew this comment wud be cmg 😛
      U helped Vimmuuu by saying what he wanted to say probably 😉

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  8. That’s a very sweet post Swar 😀 😀

    My childhood ambitions started with the dream of being a teacher someday, which changed to a doctor and finally to an administrative officer. Though what I do now is something I finalized in my last years at school 🙂

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    1. Oh exactly the same for me too .. one thing I remember is that I used to see many children playing the teacher game and I ws satisfied being everybody’s student 😛 😛

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  9. I think i wanted to become Police and later by my mom’s influence it was Engineer and i was an engineer and amnow into profession witout any recession and that i had not dreamed about it.

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  10. LOL! We all go through these phases, don’t we? I remember wanting to be a teacher but from a very young age, I remember wanting to be an engineer – Daddy’s footsteps, i suppose. But I remember wanting to give medicine a shot when I started reading Robin Cook’s books in Class nine 🙂

    I remember my brother’s childhood dreams more clearly. He wanted to be a bus conductor, a tailor, anybody he came across, he would want to become that 🙂

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    1. Oh ya Smithu .. I remember that my sister wanted to be teacher, teacher and teacher in that order 😛
      Later, she used to luv eyebrow shaping as she used to say 😉

      And my cousin bro .. he wanted to repair watches .. used to take these covers of syrup bottles [the plastic ones], place them over his eyes and act like the watch repair persons 😉

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    2. And I decided to follow Mom n Dad’s footsteps and get into engg. so much later in life. May be it ws some sort of overdose @ home already lol 😉

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  11. LOL! I was very mediocre. I think I just wanted to become mummy, later I graduated to bus conductor, beauty parlor lady!!! :mrgreen:

    And I love swing aunty and bedsheet uncle!
    Hilarious! 😆 Why did you think they were cool anyway?!

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    1. Bedsheet uncle .. I said it there no 🙂 🙂
      Swing aunty .. no idea 😀

      Nothing is mediocre … all of them r fun in their own way Nivs 🙂

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      1. Still! I think mopeds are cool for all of us as kids! Now I feel the word moped only is so funny!
        Life becomes so different after a few years alva!
        And come on!!! Which kid aims to become mummy in her future years!!! 😀

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      1. umm.. i didnt have any…
        mom n dad had big dreams for me.. though i admit i didnt fulfil their dream 😦 and m now doing something that i had never thought about!

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  12. Nicely, recollected! 🙂

    As a kid i wanted to become a lorry driver, thinking that is the easiest way to go around the country. Later, when i realized it is not a glamorous profession, I wanted to be the ‘Rasna’ girl girl who would say, “I love you Rasna” at Mahabhratha and Chandrakanta audience! 🙂

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  13. ‘Swing Aunty’ and ‘Bedsheet Uncle’ …. ROFL 🙂

    😀 😀

    Well let me see … When I was a kid, I wanted to be a conductor in a BTS (as it was known then) bus. You get to have lots of money in your bag and get to travel all around. The bus stops or moves on your word. Amazing power i say 🙂

    Ha ha .. sounds fun 🙂

    And then I wanted to be a pilot. You don’t have a conductor on the flight u see :P.

    LOL .. nice one 😉

    But then i discovered my fear of heights. So there it goes.

    And then I wanted to be a doctor and i had even written an article in our school magazine that i wanted to become a doc, work abroad and what not all, even when i was in 5th i think. And then my brother joined medicine and the explanation of the stuffs which they have to do just was sooo ewwww to me.

    Oh I think that is the way I lost it too 😛

    So then moved to comp sc engineer and thats what i ended up as.

    🙂 🙂

    But then ofcourse got bugged with that too and then decided to move to some other field and the rest of the story you know yourself. 🙂
    What wud I nt do to hv that .. prestigious 😉

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  14. oh man !!!

    my first memory is of wanting to be an eskimo. … i would stay under the table for hours with a bedsheet covering all the open sides of the table , and pretend i was in an igloo

    Ohhhh thatz so cooool 🙂

    then , after hearing ‘mera ptaay shalimar’ and ‘aap jaise koi ..’, wanted to be a singer

    then, an agony aunt
    ROFL 😆

    then a furniture maker / architect / tailor …. even learnt tailoring , and used to stitch my own clothes … but …
    Wow! Thatz nice 🙂

    and recently , wanted to be a life guard (but that’s impossible)
    Hmm interesting 🙂

    .. now want to be a school teacher either teaching maths or art to KG kids … hmmmmmmm
    🙂 🙂

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  15. Aww what a cute fun post!! Swing Aunty and Bedsheet Uncle are hilarious…..I cannot for the life of me remember anything about my career aspirations in my childhood – should ask my Mommy – sigh….I know I wanted to be a chef and had inquired about catering colleges and such and then God knows how I have landed up in Finance!

    My daughter wants to be a pretend doctor and lately a farmer 🙂

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  16. damn cute post….liked the swing aunty part and the cutting up teddys for babies part the most.
    Well, I dont think I had so many dreams, atleast I dont remember and mom doesnt talk about any, but I still nurture dreams of being what you are, i.e a journalist, but a travel journalist, or an event manager:)

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  17. Heart warming post 🙂
    Bed Sheet Uncle!!! :-))
    I wanted to become a “Gol Gappe Wala” :-)) and along with being a teacher, and a high profile “heels wearing” executive!! :-))

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  18. I switched between being an actor and a teacher for the most part. Back and forth. Till one day I wanted to be a painter and have my paintings sold for a lot of $$$$ ..Saare sapne kahein kho gaye..haaye hum kya se kya ho gaye.. 😛 😛

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  19. I don’t even recollect anything of a goal in my kid-days. If any, it was an ambition to drive a Leyland or Tata bus or lorry. That ambition is still there. Given a chance now, I’ll drive one. 🙂

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  20. LOL…this is such a funny post…bedsheet uncle 😀 hee hee..you would have been bedsheet aunty then 😀

    as far as I can remember I wanted to be a fire(wo)man :), then a bunch of other stuff I cannot even remember but totally pointless…and then a model…but sadly height killed the 0.000000000000001 chances I had :D, and then something complex like a pediatric neuro-surgeon but the sight of bloodiness was too much and finally…I let destiny take over 🙂

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  21. See Swarr, you dont have to dress up like a joker to become a joker; you are one !! 😀 😀 😀

    Che che Vimmuuu, ur comments r becoming so predictable 😛 I knew u wud say this 😉

    Swing aunty and bedsheet uncle ! chey !! two missed opportunities; you wouldve reached places with that kinda profession 😀 😀 😀
    I know 😦 So many ppl r @ a loss .. they can’t get gud bedsheets at their doorstep 😉

    Glad you arent a doctor if thats how you were planning to get babies delivered ! 😀 😀
    Oye! Hw did u think babies were delivered at that age 😛 😛 And what I ws attempting ws a C-Sec 😀

    My childhood ambition was to become a professor, then, a script writer,
    Oh my! Thatz y u write all those posts and bug us … imagine that u r a script-writer is it??? Btw, that ghost-story script u guys played @ work ws written by u no 😉 And u wud hv only been one Nutty Professor!

    then a singer, then I got lost somewhere and finally now Im in Sales !!! But I would still wanna pursue the singer one ! lets see if I can go that way someday !
    See, here I can’t pull ur legs … u r already one no 😛

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  22. Ohh bedsheet Uncle is the best…. I so so wish I can do that now here in USA. Wahh imagine me on a hot motorbike, all dressed up in tashan biking gear with leather shoes selling bedsheets? 😛

    Wah wah! So, is that gng to be ur next WW post Saksh 😛

    You know what? your post has really inspired me to make my very own post about my childhood dreams…so maybe one of these days you can read the list on my own blog.

    Ahem .. I always inspire ppl to do gud things 😉 😉

    Ps: I so so badly wanted to become a Witch so that I could change my brothers into whatever I wanted 😦
    🙄 🙄 Don’t want to anymore?

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  23. I wanted to be a Umm…a…you know…err…well I really don’t remember about bachpan dreams…but yeah around 9th grade I wanted to be an Architect / Interior Designer…and actually became an HR professional 🙂

    But that’s not all…I’m sure I’m going to pursue the left aside dream..I’m going to be an Interior Designer few years down the line for sure !!

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  24. Swing aunty 😀 hehehehheh.. playback singer ivagalu aagbohudu 🙂

    and I agree, I dont get this “bachpan ka sapna”.. too cliche and I feel like thulping those people on reality shows who say this.
    btw are you following Indian idol? did you listen to Vishwas ? amazing voice! the only contestant whom I like. that Shashi Suman guy is also ok. I remember he had auditioned for Saregama last year.

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    1. Shruthi, thanks amma. U answered my doubts too 😛 😛 I fail to understand that 😉

      Vishwas is really nice. I liked Shivam Pathank when he sang ‘Khudaya Ve’ 🙂

      Shashi Suman Saregama ge bandidna? Adhu gothirlilla 🙂

      And btw, playback ella nimagamma 😛

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  25. Hahaha.. That was Cute!!! Nice post. My brother used to nurse dreams of becoming engine driver etc. As for me, I’m still unsure. I had no ambition as a kid. I wanted to be a librarian. Even today it stays..along with that, I don’t mind being a nursery school teacher 🙂

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    1. Thatz nice Ro … hope u wil do it someday 🙂 Nursery school teacher.. something I think of too nwadays .. so nice to be with the chotus 🙂

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  26. This is such a interesting post ..
    and u had totally original dreams ..never heard them from any…

    He he thanks .. I am kind of weird 😛

    I actually never knew what I wanted to become till about I was in 9th..

    Then I wanted to do Fashion desniging ,interior designing ..I actually asked my parents to pursue Architecure but since they had heard of some girl-architect to be without work…that was a definite no…

    Hmm I understand .. parents worry abt many such things 🙂

    So by default I became a engineer..from where I come from ..u either be a engineer or a doctor ..
    Same in most cases I think no!

    I still dream of being in any other profession ..
    Gud luck Vandana 🙂

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  27. joker!!! I guess that would be an apt profession, no? 😛

    I didn’t have any such crazy thoughts. Infact, just before college was about to finish did I decide to do CA… I didn’t really know what I wanted to do.

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    1. Ya ya totally 🙂 Infact, I am planning to start my own circus company also .. what with so many clown friends that I hv 😛 😛

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  28. Swing aunty – I have never heard of anyone who wanted to become ‘Swing aunty’ and then ‘bedsheet uncle, huh … dreams of children are really interesting! But ‘Joker’ was the best!

    I also wanted to be a singer! My son wanted to be a Steam Engine train driver! My brother wanted to join army but was rejected because he was too thin…! It is funny when we go back to our childhood and think about what we dreamed of becoming when we get BIG…!

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    1. Like your brother my brother too wanted to be a driver Sandhya. He wanted to be a truck driver . He was convinced that noone had a bigger vehicle than a truck driver:)

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    2. My hubby cleared a test to become a train engine driver,but his f-law didn’t give bribe.Even know he says if he gets a chance to become a train driver he will surely take it.

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  29. Swing aunty we can understand but Bedsheet uncle was the best……for a small child tht must be the most adventurous job 🙂

    I wanted to be an air-hostess for a lontime and then my mom one day sat me down and told me tht I must be willing to clean up puke and poop on the job. Almost immediately the interest waned 😀
    Then for the longest time I wanted to be a librarian….infact I still harbour hopes of studying for it and joining some school someday 🙂

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    1. Ya Nance .. the two wheeler and may be the fact that I cud hv so many dresses for myself made the difference lol 😉

      Oh wow .. all the best Nance 🙂 LOL @ Poop and Puke 😉

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  30. LOL Swaram….Swing Aunty, Bedsheet uncle and most of all JOKER !!!! You are just too much…

    But isnt it a sad thing that how we outgrow our dreams and become someone else, due to so many reasons.

    I wanted to be a teacher – all thru my childhood for the fantasy to wearing a saree was too much….but if you offer me that job now, maybe I’ll run away from it.

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    1. Ya, it is sad if we hv to give up on them due to external forces Ums 😦 If we move on from one to another, then thatz cool 😉

      For wearing a saree .. thatz nice 🙂 I used to luvvv wearing saree too .. u must hv read that post on my saree craze no 😛 But never played being a teacher .. may be bcoz I hd an overdose from my sis …. she always wanted to be one!!!

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  31. I wanted to be a salt seller I think 😛 You know, when the man would drag his cart around shouting “uppuppay”…don’t know why it seemed to attractive though!

    I’ve done the kadlepuri rakshasa thing too 😀

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  32. All i wanted was to be a super hero!u know , i used to make masks out of cardboards and even capes fashioned frm my dads lungi! And i used to call myself the bartman 😀
    But kya kare…not many super heroes around these days!So im pretty much jobless now! 😦

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  33. Joker and Swing Aunty 🙂 unique indeed ! Strangely, I don’t think I dreamt up of any such thing ! cant even remember ! Chose CS over Bio in class XI just to avoid opening up rats !!!
    strange mmm? And ended up in S/W…:)

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    1. Oh I know .. the dissection thing put many of us off the Bio lab tables 😛 😛
      I am happy we only hd one .. the cockroach and that too .. a demo 😉 😉

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    1. LOL … ‘none of the above’ used to be an answer for those multiple choice qs no 😛
      I am coding for a living as of nw, but wud luv to be a super-chef, travel-show host or an interior designer some day 😛 😛

      Oh I am still figuring it out too … hv so many options above lol 😉

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  34. Interesting early career choices ! Bedsheet uncle takes the cake !

    Echoing starsinmyeyes – so which career path did you choose ?

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  35. I won’t reveal my secret here ….;)…Will write something about it on my blog some day..
    But really loved reading your Bachpan dreams…..Swing aunty,bedsheet uncle….Oh ma..so sweet of you…

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  36. I am glad to have taken up something similar to what I wanted to … journalism/media/writing.
    And now blogging too… on the side 🙂 but well… the frequency has gone down though 🙄

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  37. 😆
    Swaram Those have to be the cutest and most err innovative things for a child to have thought of 😀

    Bedsheet Uncle and swing aunty? 😆 cute 😀

    I wanted to be a doc too:) the way kids make little sachets of medicine(read-sugar):D and would prescribe them to my bros (read guinea pigs :mrgreen: )

    also bookshop owner…then librarian..then toffeeshop owner

    childhood is a time of such innocence na?

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    1. Aww toffeeshop owner .. so nice .. I cud hv come and taken a lot of them from u 😛
      I need them for instant energy when I go selling bedsheets no 😉 😉

      Ya .. what fun then .. our choices were nt governed more by what ppl might think, money etc.. sigh!

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  38. The childhood choices of your profession are so cute Swaram… Will put a detailed comment soon 🙂

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  39. lolz a very nostaligic post… 🙂 each time i used to see someoe really successful..i wanted to become that 🙂

    In fact when i saw swades i thot Oh God..I shud hv been there…where shahrukh works :p

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  40. Sooooooooooooooooooo sweeet, Swaram. How cute.. swing aunty… LOL!! Bedsheet uncle thankfully was not what the name might indicate 😉 Very sweet post 🙂

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  41. Swing aunty..lol.. you can still become one once you have some kids of your own 😉 I wanted to become a doctor since everyone in my family wanted me to become one. But I started hating Biology in high school. Then I wanted to become a scientist but instead became engineer.

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  42. Well i clearly remember that when i was a tiny Savvy, i used to go to a scooter garage wid dad. . The mechanic (whose name was Iqbal) used to buy me candies. . I thought being mechanic was cool with so many tools and equipments to handle and wished to be one..

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  43. Hey

    Niceeee post…

    I cant recall much about what i wanted to be in my childhood…but in high school i always thought of doing Engineering…so kinda mission accomplished 😉

    and teddy-bears were cut open using scissors and small knives to remove babies

    Weren’t you too smart then ? 😉

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  44. Ever since I remember , I wanted to be a doctor …but I did not succeed ..I think I should do a post like that for Aryan , so that he would know what his fascinations were as kid 🙂

    Bedsheet uncle and Swing Aunty are so cute!

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