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Deeps had done it sometime back. Pix did it too. Here is my version
1. Indebted to someone for life
My grandparents [My Mom's parents]. I believe that they have laid a very strong foundation which my entire family today lives upon. Equality, mutual respect, importance of family bonding are all lessons I first learnt from them.
I miss you both so much, but I know you are there watching all of us from wherever you are and happy that your entire family still continues to live the same way … full of love
2. A gesture that left me speechless
We had just returned from a vacation. It was about 10.00 p.m already on a Sunday. We had just unpacked whatever was important, changed and were ready to retire for the day when we heard a knock on the door. It was Raju – he and his wife Maniamma were the care-takers of our apartment. He handed over a carry bag to me containing a few basic vegetables …. onions, tomatoes, chillies, coriander, ginger, lime and I think one or two other varieties. He had taken the pain of looking for a shop which was open @ that hour so that we won’t struggle to cook our lunch the next day morning, as we had to rush to work! This when we had not even asked for it
Maniamma used to work in almost all houses in the apartment. Whenever she was not feeling well, Raju used to fill in for her and come to our house to wash the vessels etc.. They were such a lovely couple. We have moved from that place in Hyderabad now .. but Maniamma called me recently to say that they have bought a cell-phone and gave us the number
God bless them!
3. Say ‘Sorry’ to someone
I know my loved ones [family and friends] would never expect a note of apology from me. They love me beyond all my vices. But still, sorry to all those whom I have hurt knowingly/ unknowingly – with my words, deeds, cold wars or whatever it is. Sorry from the bottom of my heart
4. Say ‘Thank you’ to someone
Nagi Uncle. When I got married, little did I know that I would develop such a special bond with my FIL’s youngest brother who treats me like his own daughter, as much as he treats Su like his own son! Itz just inexplicable
He is there for us whenever we need him. We moved cities – he was there for us with all that we needed to set up a new home! Whenever he came down from the US, he used to make a trip to Hyderabad just to spend time with us. On most of their family vacations, he buys two tickets for us too and we don’t ever oppose him .. he just does not give us a chance
I can’t believe you maintain the same warm relation with my parents and my sister, even when I am staying miles away. You know how much we both love you Uncle. You are not only a father figure for us, but also a great friend and a confidant. Thank You so much for being there for us
5. Most cherished possession till date
My most cherished possession till date and forever will be:
- My lovely family: And that includes not only my Dad, Mom, Sis and Su but also my aunts, uncles, cousins who shower so much love on me that I sometimes ponder what have I done to be blessed with them? Especially after the robbery @ home, I have realized more than ever that any other material possession can just not stay with me forever; but love will! Even after people pass on, their warmth will stay with us, just like my grandparents still do
- My friends: When I started blogging, little did I know that this would open the door to a beautiful world filled with love and fun. The virtual bonds are so real … more real than the real ones now
Thanks so much for being there for me through thick and thin. And there’s absolutely no exaggeration here
6. A special moment that brings a smile to my face
Oh its so difficult to choose one. Letz see
- My sister had to undergo a surgery just 2 days before her 12th final exam in Physics. A boil on her neck had suddenly grown too much and had to be operated immediately. Even while going to the OT, she was asking the surgeon if she would be well enough to study and write the exam. My sister is totally opposite of me in nature. Very soft, talks less till she is close to someone and does not take on anybody or oppose as much. But, she is the courageous one when it comes to such things, esp. doctors
She had to write her exams dressed up for the wound, difficult to move her neck around and we were in tears to see her struggling, but had to swallow it all so that she would not feel low. When the results were out, she had scored cent percent and I just can’t tell how proud I feel about her for that! Not just bcoz she scored 100 but for all that she had gone thru but still put up a brave face
- My wedding .. It was full of fun and frolic. We were playing Antakshari and dumb-charades till late in the night on the eve. Su’s uncles were reciting our love story with classic songs woven into them, one of his uncles was doing the Charlie-Chaplin dance, my chotu cousins had gone totally mad dancing around all the time … and most importantly, nobody asked me to act like a shy bride
My cousins had even planned a superb gift for Su .. chillies decorated in all forms and wrapped to make a big giftpack, bcoz he does not like spicy things @ all and so on. Totally fun
Also, today is my lil sister San’s bday. She is the youngest of my all my cousins and so, our sweet sweet baby – even though she is no longer one
Happy birthday San Princess
I hope and wish u wil be as bubbly as u r now all ur life
Ahem …. I am done saying all that I wanted to. Wonderful tag this one is
Please do take it up … would love to read your versions
Ohh you came here to fix your teeth? Shooo go to CB’s place Bratu
Ha ha ha gud one AD
Ha ha .. thanks Shilpa
Let me guess…hmmm you are gonna pick up all the tag in the world for the next 20 days?
LOL .. a tag a day is a gud idea no
But no I think
I luvv dng blah-blah better he he 
Hey when did you get robbed?
what all went missing, even that tribal shoe??? sobs!!
Wish it ws only shoes
It ws much more .. gold, laptop and so on
LOL .. u really dnt know
That was so sweet of Raju. I miss all my maids in India
Ya .. he is very sweet
Ps: Your from the bottom apology is accepted for torturing my fingers to extreme extends.
Saksh, I promise I wil take a month off after the NaBloPoMo
Happy nw
Nice! I love this tag. We all would like to say sorry to our loved ones, wouldn’t we?
Loved reading about the bond you share with Nagi uncle. Touch-wood to that
Thanks T
Grandparents…I think nearly everyone will cherish them! Yours must be very very good, Swaram!
Too very attached Sandhya. I am the first grand-daughter .. so ws the apple of their eyes
Very rarely we get Maniamma and Raju type of people in these days. Mostly they act like machines without any emotions or use us!
Very very true Sandhya
I think everyone does it, hurt our loved ones knowingly (!) and unknowingly…because of the freedom we think we have got with them!
U hv a point there
Nice to have somebody like your Nagi uncle in the family, you are lucky!
Oh I know .. I hd never expected it actually .. so its all the more special
Yours seem to be a very close knit family, Swaram! God bless you!
Thanks so much
Thatz the best gift I hv Sandhya
All of us are lucky to have friends here (like you!) in our blogworld who always give us a boost all the time!
Aww thatz very very sweet of u
I admire your sister a lot, because my son too went through nearly the same problem while he had his 12th exam!
Oh I know! I wud hv fainted then and there
The D-day should be like yours, which will be remembered throughout one’s life, Swaram, God bless you all!
This one is such a lovely comment
Thanks so much Sandhya
Happy birthday to San!
Thats a heartwarming tag, Swaru. You are so sweet, even to hurt someone….I can’t understand the sorry part. Anyway…..
Raju and Maniamma, please come over here….we badly need ppl like you !!!!
Nagi uncle – I am touched by his love for you both.
And happy bday to that little sister of yours !!!
Have a great weekend dear !!!
Aww u r very sweet to say that Ums .. I am no angel
Ha ha, Raju and Maniamma r a lovely pair for sure
And Nagi Uncle, I cn never thank God enuf for him
Thanks so much for the wishes Ums
A wonderful person…that’s what you are !God bless you and your world.
I wil try to become one .. thanks so much Kavita
Awwww…. shooooooooooooooo sweeeeeeeeeet… loved loved this tag of yours, Swaram. God bless people like Raju and Maniamma, and everyone else too
This post brought a big smile to my face.
BTw, we were at Saravana Bhavan last evening, and I saw a girl who looked exactly like you…
Oh wow .. thanks so much Pal
lovely post and very sweet memories you’ve shared…wud luv to see ur marriage video sometime
He he thanks gils. Nt sure any of them r on video though
Everybody ws too busy to shoot
That was such a heart warming post, swar! Totally touching
Happy Birthday to your lil sis
People like Raju and Maniamma are priceless, aren’t they? Gestures like these leaves one speechless.
And your Nagi Uncle
He sounds so so so sweet!
Have a great weekend!
Thanks so much Smithu
Wish I can hv Maniamma and Raju with me all my life
A wonderful post Swar, brimming in love :Razz:
A very Happy Birthday to your little sis
Hope you have a wonderful weekend!!
Thanks so much CB
all little sisters are sweet and brave. we have to put up with elder ones alwa :p
che heLbaarditta, hyd ge bandaaga nin madve cd noDbohudittu
nic tag kano and happy birthday to your cousin
Oh ho ho I c
He he nan maduve CD Blr nalle ide
Thanks for the wishes ma
Superb post!!
Thank u
I shared a similar bond with my maternal gparents and for a moment i thought u r writing abt them! would love to know ur love story..
Aww thatz such a sweet bond no
My luv story .. abs no villains nothing
Infact, MIL wanted me to be her DIL even before we both even thought we wud get married LOL
FIL ws the one who brought up the topic .. so no mirch masala at all
we want a full post on that ;P … but a lovely read and a lovely tag
)
Ahem .. thanks Sags
awww this is such a beautiful post… the lovely family moments… those and laughters… I could feel them ringing through your words
beautiful
Thanks so much Rajlakshmi
Ur posts abt ur family never fail to touch me…….every single time:-))
Ur sister’s story was wonderful!!!!
Thanks sooo much Nance .. u r very sweet
nice

happy for you and your awesome family
Happ b’day San
Thanks so much Rays .. God bless u
Schweeetu tag…
Thanks Aarti
A very sweet heart warming post Swaram
Loved it…
and you are truly blessed
Thanks so much Kanagu
A post oozing with love and warmth, positivity and fun!
A very happy birthday to your sis!!
Thanks so much Shilpa
What a heart warming post……….You write so beautifullySwaram!
Damn sweet of u to say that sands
That struck a string of chords, Swar! Your bond with you grandparents reminded me of my own. I spent a major protion of my childhood with them
. And to a large extent the values and teachings I have got are from them.
Ohh same here too Deeps .. thatz such a sweet co-incidence
God bless Maniamma & Raju. Such people are a true blessing
Very true
Your uncle again reminds me of R’s uncle who I was very close to. He passed away a couple of years back but even today the mere mention of his name in the family circle brings in a lot of cheer and warmth around.
Aww such ppl r really a blessing for any family no
Awww..you cherish our friendship! You know how fortunate I’m to have known you,dont you SWar?I’m blessed that blogging has given me such wonderful friends for life like you
Ditto ditto .. Hugs Sweets
Love & Hugs always
Thanks sooo much Deeps
Your sister is a real brave girl,please do let her know that
.
And a very happy b’day to your cousin San
!
Thanks sooo sooo much Deepu
such a sweet post this one i think i will do this one too.. lovely touched my heart
Aww that wil be nice Mons .. waiting to read
Thank u
Hmmmm…. I too had a minor accident in my twelfth standard – but it was 8 months before the final exams and during the quarterly vacations!!! I still use that as an excuse for not scoring any mark near that 100% in any of the papers!!
Destination Infinity
Oh its so difficult no
LOL @ the excuse
Sweet ..lovely post Swaram

Blessed indeed when there is so much of love all around us
And very true… that virtual friends are more real than the real ones!! yay to blogging and blog friends!!
Thanks so much Priya
Yay to blog friends indeed
Belated happy birthday to your little sis….Superb post swaram….Keep writing
Thanks so much S
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A most moving post. Cant tell you which one was better than which!
You have a blessed life, woman! Enjoy!
Thanks so much Priya
@ Priya : moving post ? did you read it while travelling ?
:grrr so saheb finally landed here
Lovely post Swaram.. Tag is too good.. I will take this tag in sometime..
Thanks Kavya .. wud be nice to see many ppl dng this one
ya ya, whatever ! Im angry at you for not mentioning my name anywhere in the tag !!Hmmppphh !!!
1 ) Indebted – One whole evening you scared me with your eyes. I so wanted to punch you each time you scared me, but I controlled my anger. You shouldve been indebted to me for still having that face without a plastic surgery !
2) Speechless gesture – when you received my first comment in your blog !
3) Sorry – Again, for scaring me !
4) Thankyou – For having met me !
5) Cherished possession – Those candles I gifted you !!
6) A special smiling moment – When I took you to the canteen during the concert and filled your growling stomach !
Hmmppphhh again !
U r loose loose loose crack mad and all those
U did nt gift me candles .. did u even buy that
I hv my own doubts nw
Wah wah! U did the entire tag here
One thing I completely identify with and have in common with you is the love for maternal grandparents, without whom I wouldnt be the person I am
Swar… you already have the best of it all in your life. Touchwood and God bless! I hope it remains that way
He he thanks Ash … hw nice of u to read so many posts in one go
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